You’ve run across my (not so) secret page with all of the mugshots I’ve put on the site since I put it online. Yeah, it’s a little cringe, but so many people dealing with identity have complicated relationships with how they present in the world. I’m no different. It took years for me to be comfortable putting my face out there after I came out. Most people who know me still identify me strongly with the first pic below, which was my profile for years. (It’s ice in a colorful drink.)
